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First Video Call Notes Template

A simple printable notes template for host families and au pairs to use during a first video call. It helps capture daily life, expectations, values match and follow-up questions.

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Print it before the call or use it afterwards to compare notes calmly before deciding on the next step.

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Why this template helps

First calls can feel friendly but still leave important details unclear. This template helps both sides write down what was said, what still needs a follow-up and whether daily life and values feel aligned.

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Basic details

  • Date of the call
  • Names of host family and au pair
  • Time zone or location notes
  • Main reason for the call

Daily life notes

  • What a normal weekday looks like
  • Most important childcare moments
  • School runs, activities, meals or bedtime notes
  • Weekend or evening expectations

Children and family rhythm

  • Children’s personalities
  • Activities they enjoy
  • What helps when they are tired or emotional
  • Important routines, allergies or sensitivities

Role and expectations

  • Daily tasks
  • Weekly or occasional tasks
  • Tasks that are not expected
  • Anything that still needs clarification

Values match

  • Parenting style and communication style
  • Reliability, flexibility and independence
  • Privacy, free time and family involvement
  • How both sides handle unclear expectations or conflict

Follow-up

  • Questions to ask after the call
  • Documents, photos or examples to share
  • Second call needed: yes / no / maybe
  • Next step and timing